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Bring Passion Back: The Psychology of Reigniting Desire
The Science of Desire: Understanding Sexual Polarity- The Polarity Principle
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My Girlfriend Says I'm Boring - What to Do
My Girlfriend Says I'm Boring: What She Really Means (And How to Fix It)
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Confidence in Bed: Psychology Most Men Never Learn
True sexual confidence comes from understanding one fundamental truth: your partner wants you to lead. Not perform. Not ask permission for every move.
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The No-Hands Challenge: A Dom Scene Idea
She’s already watching you with that curious tilt to her head, the kind that means she knows you’re up to something.
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The Negotiated Surprise: Planning Spontaneity in D/s
She’s standing barefoot in the center of the room, the air already heavy with a quiet tension neither of you is rushing to break.
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Aftercare Guide for Dominants: Everything You Need to Know
Master aftercare to strengthen bonds and ensure safety in D/s relationships. Your complete guide to post-scene care, recovery, and emotional support.
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Boundaries in BDSM: The Complete Guide
Master the art of boundaries in D/s relationships. Learn to set, communicate, and respect limits that create safety and enable deeper power exchange.
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Consent in D/s Relationships: The Complete Guide
Master the art of consent in dominant-submissive relationships. Your comprehensive guide to negotiation, boundaries, and ethical power exchange.
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Creating Your First Submissive Training Plan
A step-by-step guide to creating an effective submissive training plan. Includes templates, goal-setting frameworks, and scheduling tips for Doms.
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Essential Rules for Submissives (With Templates)
25+ example rules for submissives organized by category, plus templates you can customize. A practical guide for Doms creating D/s rules.
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How to Train a Submissive: A Dom's Complete Guide
Learn the step-by-step process of submissive training. From building foundations to advanced techniques, a comprehensive guide for Doms.
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The Service Submissive: A Complete Guide for Doms
Understand the service submissive mindset and learn how to nurture, train, and appreciate a service-oriented sub. A Dom's complete guide.
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Submissive Positions: A Dom's Teaching Guide
Learn the essential submissive positions, how to teach them effectively, and when to use each one. A practical guide for Dominants.
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Building Trust as a Dom: The Complete Guide
Transform your D/s relationship with proven trust-building strategies. Learn how dominants create unshakeable bonds through consistency, honesty, and respect.
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12 Types of Submissives Every Dom Should Know
Discover the 12 distinct submissive types and learn how to recognize, understand, and work with each one. A Dom's essential guide to submissive personalities.
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Understanding the Bratty Submissive: A Dom's Guide
Learn how to handle a bratty submissive. Understand the psychology behind bratting, effective brat taming strategies, and when push-back becomes a problem.
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What is a Submissive? A Dom's Complete Guide
Understand what submission really means in BDSM. A Dom's guide to recognizing healthy submission, red flags, and what submissives actually want.
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The Ultimate Guide to Ball Gags
So, you're thinking about using a ball gag. Maybe you've seen them in BDSM scenes, or you've just bought one and want to make sure you're doing it right.
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BDSM Contracts: Negotiating Boundaries and Consent
In the kaleidoscopic world of human sexuality, BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism) stands out as a domain where power...
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The Submissive's Guide to Negotiating Limits and Desires
Master the art of negotiating limits and desires in D/s relationships. Learn to communicate boundaries, set safewords, and build trust with confidence.
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How to Dominate a Submissive
Dominance and submission (D/s) relationships are a form of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) dynamic where one partner willingly gives...
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How to Introduce Kink Play into Your Relationship
Kink play, also known as BDSM, is a form of sexual expression that involves consensual power exchange and the use of various props and activities to...
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Power Exchange 101: A Guide to Healthy Relationship Dynamics
Dive into a world where dominance and submission intertwine, shaping relationships and igniting passions.
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Embracing Your Dominant or Submissive Side
Are you someone who enjoys taking control and being in charge, or do you prefer to let someone else take the lead?
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Safety Tips for Shibari Beginners
Before attempting any shibari techniques, it is crucial to educate yourself on the art form.
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DDLG Dynamics: A Guide to Safe, Consensual Age Play
Enter your text here...Exploring Age Play: A Comprehensive Guide to DDLG DynamicsUnderstanding DDLGDDLG, short for Daddy Dom/Little Girl, represents a...
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Adult Relationship Boundaries Guide: Essential Communication
Ever wondered how to dive into BDSM without drowning in confusion?Say hello to your new best friend: the BDSM checklist.Let's crack on with why it's a...
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Care and Maintenance of BDSM Equipment
In the world of BDSM, equipment plays a pivotal role in crafting experiences and facilitating dynamics.
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BDSM Equipment and Mental Health
BDSM, a multifaceted interplay of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism, offers a unique window into the psyche of its...
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Aftercare & BDSM Equipment: An Inclusive Overview
Welcome to your comprehensive guide to BDSM aftercare. Whether you're new to the BDSM community or an experienced practitioner, understanding aftercare is...
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Understanding Different Cultures and BDSM Equipment
The realm of BDSM is as vast and varied as the cultures that span our global tapestry.
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The Role of Trust in Using BDSM Toys
The BDSM community frequently emphasizes the significance of trust, and for good reason.
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BDSM Toys in Online Relationships
In today's interconnected digital age, it's unsurprising that relationships, including those rooted in the BDSM community, often find their expression...
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BDSM Toys and Consent
Consent, a cornerstone in BDSM practices, goes beyond just verbal agreement. It extends into every aspect of a scene, particularly when introducing BDSM...
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Safety Considerations for BDSM Toys
The vast and intriguing world of BDSM offers a myriad of experiences that can elevate pleasure, intimacy, and connection.
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Choosing the Right Toys for Your Scene
Crafting a memorable BDSM scene requires thoughtful planning, consideration of boundaries, and often, the inclusion of the right equipment.
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BDSM Toys for Dominants
In the world of BDSM, the role of a dominant is both intriguing and complex. Central to this role is the use of various types of equipment, which are more...
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Understanding Power Dynamics in a Dominant Relationship
Introduction: Power dynamics, the unseen forces that push and pull relationships in various directions, play a pivotal role in dominant/submissive (D/s)...
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The Importance of Consent in Power Dynamics
Introduction: Consent is the cornerstone of any BDSM activity, especially in dominant/submissive relationships where power dynamics play a significant...
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Power Dynamics and Communication
Introduction: In the intricate dance of dominance and submission, understanding power dynamics is only half the battle.
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Power Dynamics in Online Dom/Sub Relationships
Introduction: In an age where technology has intricately woven itself into the fabric of our daily lives, the realm of dominance and submission has not...
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Mental Health and Power Dynamics
Introduction: Power dynamics in D/s relationships can be both a therapeutic escape and a trigger, depending on one's mental health and past experiences.
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Power Dynamics in Different Cultures
Introduction:The world of dominance and submission is as diverse as the cultures that encompass it.
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The Role of Trust in Power Dynamics
Introduction:Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, but in the realm of dominance and submission, it takes on a monumental significance.
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Power Dynamics and Boundaries in BDSM Relationships
Introduction:Navigating power dynamics in any relationship requires understanding, mutual respect, and effective communication.
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Power Dynamics and Aftercare in BDSM Relationships
Introduction:Aftercare is one of the most cherished and essential practices in BDSM.
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Healthy vs Unhealthy Power Dynamics
Introduction:Power dynamics in D/s relationships can be exhilarating, intense, and deeply fulfilling.
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25 Different Types of Dominants: Which Are You?
Discover 25 types of dominants in BDSM - from caring doms to sadists, riggers to daddy doms. Find your authentic style, understand power dynamics, and avoid fake doms.
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Nurturing Bonds in Dominant/Submissive Dynamics
Explore how aftercare in BDSM relationships helps build emotional connections, foster trust, and strengthen long-term bonds between partners. Learn more here.
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Customizing Aftercare to Individual Needs
Create personalized aftercare plans for BDSM scenes. Learn to identify sensory preferences, build aftercare kits, and strengthen your D/s bond.
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Trust in Aftercare: Strengthening D/s Bonds
Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, but in a dominant/submissive (Dom/Sub) relationship, it takes on an even more critical role.
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Aftercare Across Cultures: A Global D/s Perspective
The world of Dominant and submissive (Dom/Sub) relationships is as diverse as the people who participate in it.
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Mental Health & Aftercare in D/s Relationships
Dominant and submissive (Dom/Sub) relationships, like any other relationships, involve an array of emotional and psychological aspects that can...
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Online D/s Aftercare: Virtual Connection & Care
Navigating Dominant and submissive (Dom/Sub) relationships can be complex, and this complexity can magnify in online contexts.
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Aftercare and Communication
Engaging in a dominant and submissive (D/s) relationship involves an immense amount of trust, understanding, and most importantly, communication.
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Aftercare and Consent in BDSM Dynamics
When discussing dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships, it's impossible to overlook the vital aspects of consent and aftercare.
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How to Provide Effective Aftercare
Following our discussion on the importance of aftercare in Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships, we now delve deeper into the strategies for...
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Understanding the Importance of Aftercare
In the world of Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships, aftercare is a fundamental component.
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When Boundaries Are Crossed: Steps to Take
In any relationship, especially in Dominant/submissive dynamics, it's inevitable that boundaries may occasionally be crossed, even unintentionally.
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The Role of Trust in Respecting Boundaries
Trust is a cornerstone of any successful relationship, and its importance is magnified in Dominant/submissive relationships, especially when it comes to...
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Navigating Hard and Soft Limits
In the world of Dominant/submissive relationships, understanding and navigating the concept of hard and soft limits is crucial.
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Boundaries in Different Cultures
Exploring the dynamics of dominant/submissive relationships in different cultures brings to light the importance of understanding and respecting cultural...
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Boundaries and Mental Health
Maintaining a positive mental health balance is paramount in any relationship, but it takes on heightened importance in a dominant/submissive (D/s)...
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Boundaries in Online Dom/Sub Relationships
The rise of the internet has made it possible for people to engage in Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships online.
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Respecting Your Partner's Boundaries
Learn how to respect boundaries in D/s relationships. Understand hard and soft limits, build trust through consent, and create a safe dynamic.
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Boundaries and Consent
Understanding and respecting boundaries are key components of a healthy Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationship.
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How to Communicate Your Boundaries
The second step to understanding and respecting boundaries in Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships, after defining them, is effectively...
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Defining Personal Boundaries
When it comes to Dominant and submissive (D/s) relationships, defining personal boundaries is an absolute necessity.
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The Importance of Consistency in Trust-Building
Consistency in a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship is paramount for building and sustaining trust.
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Trust and Aftercare: A Dom's Guide
Aftercare in a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship is a vital aspect of building and maintaining trust.
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Trust in Different Cultures
Trust is an essential aspect of Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships. In different cultures around the world, the concepts of trust, respect, and the...
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Rebuilding Trust After a Breach in a Dom/Sub Relationship
Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, and a Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship is no exception.
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Trust and Mental Health in a Dom/Sub Relationship
In any relationship, trust plays an integral role in maintaining the mental health of all parties involved.
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Trust in Online Dom/Sub Relationships
Online dominant and submissive (D/S) relationships have become increasingly prevalent with the advent of digital communication platforms.
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Trust and Consent in D/s Relationships
The dynamics of Dominant and Submissive (D/S) relationships demand a deep understanding of trust and consent.
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Trust and Communication for Dominants
In the intricacies of a dominant-submissive (D/S) relationship, trust and communication serve as twin pillars, both working hand-in-hand to establish a...
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The Role of Honesty in Trust-Building
As we delve further into the subject of trust within Dominant-Submissive (D/S) relationships, it's imperative to consider one of the essential factors in...
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Building Trust in a Dom/Sub Relationship
As we move into our next pillar content: The Importance of Trust in Dom/Sub Relationships, it's only fitting to start with building that very foundation -...
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The Role of Feedback in Dominant-Submissive Communication
As we round up our exploration of effective communication in dominant-submissive (D/S) relationships, we will focus on an often-overlooked aspect:...
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D/s Communication Across Different Cultures
As we continue our series on effective communication in dominant-submissive (D/S) relationships, we turn our attention to a unique, yet incredibly...
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The Role of Honesty in Dominant-Submissive Relationships
Our ongoing series exploring effective communication in dominant-submissive (D/S) relationships now takes us to another significant aspect: the role of...
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Communication & Mental Health in D/s Relationships
In our exploration of effective communication in dominant-submissive (D/S) relationships, we have discussed various facets from setting boundaries to the...
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Communication in Online Dominant-Submissive Relationships
As we continue to delve into the nuances of effective communication within dominant-submissive (D/S) relationships, let's address a relatively newer...
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Communicating Expectations in D/s Relationships
Communication remains the pillar of any successful relationship, and dominant-submissive (D/S) relationships are no different.
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Non-Verbal Communication between Dom and Sub
After covering open communication, boundary discussions, and conflict resolution, let's move onto a less spoken about, yet equally important aspect of...
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Conflict Resolution Techniques in Dominant Relationships
As we delve deeper into the realm of effective communication for dominants, it's necessary to touch on the topic of conflict resolution.
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Communicating Boundaries in Dominant Relationships
Following our discussion on the importance of open communication in dominant-submissive (D/S) relationships, we now delve into the subject of...
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Open Communication in Dominant Relationships
Dominant-submissive relationships, often referred to as Dom/Sub or D/S relationships, have a unique set of dynamics that set them apart from more...
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Consent in Dominant Relationships: A Fundamental Guide
Understanding consent in a dominant relationship is not merely an option—it is an absolute necessity.
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Trust in Consent: Navigating Dominant Relationships
As we progress in our journey of understanding consent in dominant relationships, it's time to examine an essential cornerstone that upholds the structure...
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Consent Across Cultures: A Dominant's Perspective
As we continue our exploration of consent in dominant relationships, let's take a broader view and consider the cultural dimension.
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Revoking Consent in Dominant Relationships
In our ongoing exploration of consent in dominant relationships, we've delved into understanding, negotiation, legal aspects, online dynamics, and mental...
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Consent and Mental Health in Dominant Relationships
Building upon our previous discussions of consent in dominant relationships, we will now explore the intersection of consent and mental health.
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Consent in Online Dom/Sub Relationships
As we expand our understanding of consent in dominant relationships, let's delve into a realm that's becoming increasingly common – the online world.
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Legal Aspects of Consent in Dominant Relationships
Following our exploration of understanding, negotiating, and ongoing consent discussions in dominant relationships, it's important to take a look at the...
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Understanding Non-Verbal Consent in Dominant Relationships
Following up on our previous articles on consent negotiation and the importance of ongoing consent discussions, we will now delve into the concept of...
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Ongoing Consent Discussions in Dominant Relationships
Building on our previous article on 'How to Negotiate Consent in Dominant Relationships,' it's crucial to understand that consent isn't a one-time...
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How to Negotiate Consent in Dominant Relationships
Consent forms the cornerstone of any dominant-submissive relationship. It is what separates a healthy, exciting interaction from a harmful violation of...
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Dominant Dilemma: When Pleasure and Guilt Collide in BDSM
We're no longer complete novices. We've at last discovered a group of people who understand our interest in the 'kink world.' We've been exploring this...