Free Checklist

Finally Have THAT Conversation (Without the Awkwardness)

You know what you want to try. Your partner might be curious too. But how do you bring it up? This checklist does the heavy lifting for you.

  • 132 activities organized by category (yes, there's more than you think)
  • Check boxes instead of finding courage to say it out loud
  • Compare your lists and discover the overlap (this is the fun part)
  • Turn vague ideas into specific plans you both want to try
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Here's How It Works

1

Fill It Out Solo

Go through the list alone first. Check what makes you curious. Mark your hard limits. Be honest with yourself.

2

Your Partner Does the Same

Give them the checklist. Let them mark their own interests privately. No pressure. No judgment.

3

Compare and Talk

Now the magic happens. Where do your interests overlap? What surprises you? What do you want to try first?

What You'll Get

132 Activities (Organized by Type)

Bondage. Impact play. Roleplay. Sensory stuff. Power exchange. Things you didn't even know had names.

Simple Rating Scale

Hard No. Soft No. Maybe. Yes Please. Hell Yes. No overthinking. Just check the box that feels right.

Side-by-Side Comparison

Two columns. One for you, one for your partner. See what overlaps. That's your roadmap.

Our most downloaded resource. Thousands of couples have used it to turn awkward silence into exciting plans.

The Hardest Part Is Starting the Conversation

This checklist makes it easier. Stop wondering what your partner thinks. Download it, fill it out, and find out.

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