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Passion fades when relationships become too comfortable, predictable, and equal—lacking the polarity and tension that create attraction. To bring passion back, you need to reintroduce three elements: decisive masculine leadership, unpredictability through mystery and independence, and sexual tension through confident pursuit. This article reveals the psychology of lasting passion and the exact steps to reignite it, no matter how long it’s been gone.
The Moment Everything Changed
Rachel and Tom had been together seven years.
Married for four.
Good jobs. Nice house. Stable life.
And absolutely zero passion.
Sex happened maybe twice a month. Scheduled. Predictable. Functional.
Like paying bills or doing laundry.
They were roommates who occasionally had obligatory sex.
Rachel couldn’t pinpoint when it died. It just… faded. Slowly. Quietly.
Until one night at dinner with friends, she watched another couple—married ten years—and saw something that made her stomach drop.
The way he looked at his wife. The way she touched his arm. The electricity between them.
They still had it.
The thing Rachel and Tom had lost.
On the drive home, Rachel asked Tom: “When did we stop wanting each other?”
Tom was silent for a long minute.
Then: “I don’t know. But I miss it.”
That conversation started everything.
Here’s what Rachel and Tom discovered—what most couples don’t understand about passion:
It doesn’t die because you’ve been together too long. It doesn’t die because you “know each other too well.” It doesn’t die because you’re not compatible.
Passion dies when you eliminate the very things that create it.
Tension. Mystery. Polarity. Pursuit. Challenge.
In your effort to build a comfortable, stable relationship, you accidentally removed the ingredients of desire.
The good news?
They’re not gone. They’re just dormant.
And you can bring them back.
Let me show you exactly how Rachel and Tom did it—and how you can too.
Why Passion Dies (The Truth Nobody Tells You)
Go to any relationship advice site and they’ll tell you passion dies because:
- You’re not communicating enough (vague)
- You need more date nights (misses the point)
- You should try new things in bed (symptom, not cause)
- You’re too stressed or busy (convenient excuse)
These aren’t wrong. They just don’t address the core issue.
The real reason passion dies:
You’ve optimized for comfort at the expense of attraction.
Let me explain.
The Passion Paradox
Research in relationship psychology reveals a fascinating paradox:
The things that create long-term relationship stability are not the same things that create passion.
Dr. Esther Perel, psychotherapist and author of “Mating in Captivity,” found through decades of research that:
- Security requires closeness, familiarity, and predictability
- Desire requires distance, mystery, and unpredictability
The paradox: You need both, but they’re opposites.
Most couples solve this by choosing security and wondering why passion died.
What killed the passion in your relationship?
Not time. Not familiarity. Not kids or stress or getting older.
What killed it was becoming completely merged, completely predictable, completely equal.
You stopped being two separate people attracted to each other.
You became one unit. Efficient. Stable. Boring.
Think about it:
When you first got together:
- You had separate lives, interests, friends
- You didn’t know what the other was thinking 24/7
- You pursued each other actively
- There was uncertainty—does she like me? Will he call?
- You had to earn each other’s attention
- Sex was spontaneous, exciting, risky
Now:
- You share everything—no separation
- You know each other’s every thought and routine
- Nobody pursues—you’re both just “there”
- Zero uncertainty—you’re locked in
- Attention is assumed and taken for granted
- Sex is scheduled between kids and errands
You didn’t fail at the relationship.
You succeeded at building stability and accidentally killed desire in the process.
The Science of Desire: Understanding Sexual Polarity
Here’s what changed everything for Rachel and Tom.
A therapist introduced them to a concept that explained why their passion died:
Sexual polarity.
The idea that attraction requires difference—specifically, complementary masculine and feminine energies in dynamic tension.
Before you roll your eyes: This isn’t about rigid gender roles or 1950s nonsense.
It’s about energetic dynamics that exist in all humans and create magnetic attraction.
The Polarity Principle
Dr. David Deida’s research on intimate relationships identified a core truth:
Attraction requires polarity. Passion requires tension.
Just like magnets: opposite poles attract, same poles repel.
When a relationship loses polarity—when both partners operate in the same energy constantly—attraction dies.
This doesn’t mean:
- Women must be submissive (not even close)
- Men must be controlling (the opposite of attractive)
- Fixed gender roles (these energies are fluid)
It means:
Passion thrives when there’s a dynamic dance between:
- Masculine energy: Direction, decisiveness, presence, clarity, strength
- Feminine energy: Flow, receptivity, radiance, spontaneity, surrender
Anyone can embody either energy. But in most heterosexual relationships, when both partners operate in the same energy mode (usually both in masculine “doing” mode), attraction fades.
What happened to Rachel and Tom:
Early relationship:
- Tom: Decisive, leading, pursuing (masculine)
- Rachel: Responsive, receptive, radiant (feminine)
- Result: Magnetic attraction
Seven years in:
- Tom: Passive, indecisive, withdrawn (collapsed masculine)
- Rachel: Controlling, managing, directing (forced masculine)
- Result: Zero polarity, zero attraction
They’d become business partners managing a life together.
Not lovers.
The Comfort Creep
Here’s how it happens slowly:
Year 1:
- He pursues, she responds
- He decides where to go, she enjoys the adventure
- Sexual tension builds naturally
- They maintain separate identities
Year 2:
- He asks where she wants to go (being considerate)
- She starts making more decisions (he’s being flexible)
- They merge friend groups (being inclusive)
- Sex becomes routine but still frequent
Year 3:
- Everything is discussed and negotiated (being equal)
- No one leads, decisions are joint (being democratic)
- They do everything together (being close)
- Sex requires planning and coordination
Year 5:
- No one makes decisions without consulting the other
- They’ve become one person with two bodies
- Zero mystery, zero unpredictability
- Sex happens when stars align: not tired, not stressed, kid’s asleep, both showered, right time of month
The result: Maximum stability. Zero passion.
You’ve become excellent roommates and business partners.
But the erotic charge is completely dead.
The Four Passion Killers (And How to Eliminate Them)
After working with hundreds of couples trying to reignite passion, I’ve identified four consistent patterns that murder desire. If you recognize your relationship here, you’re not alone—and it’s fixable.
Passion Killer #1: Total Emotional Merger
What it looks like:
- You tell each other everything, immediately
- No private thoughts or experiences
- Constant texting throughout the day
- You’re never apart except work
- All free time spent together
- Shared social media, shared friends, shared everything
Why it kills passion:
Desire requires some space. Some mystery. Some unknown.
When your partner knows everything about you—every thought, every feeling, every bowel movement—there’s nothing left to discover.
You’re completely known. Completely mapped. Completely predictable.
Dr. Esther Perel’s research found:
“Fire needs air. Desire needs space.”
When there’s no separation between you, there’s no longing. No curiosity. No pursuit.
The fix:
Create intentional separateness:
- Develop one hobby/interest your partner doesn’t share
- Maintain independent friendships
- Don’t share every single thought and feeling
- Create “mystery time”—do something alone without reporting every detail
- Stop constant texting throughout the day
This isn’t secrecy or creating distance. It’s maintaining your individuality so you remain interesting.
Real example:
Rachel started taking a weekly pottery class. Tom had no interest in pottery. That was the point.
Tom: “When she comes home with clay on her hands, excited about something I wasn’t part of, I actually want to hear about it. And weirdly, I’m more attracted to her.”
Because she’s separate. Individual. Her own person.
Passion Killer #2: Democratic Decision-Making About Everything
What it looks like:
- Every decision is a negotiation
- “What do you want to do?” “I don’t know, what do you want to do?”
- Endless discussions before any action
- Both partners veto each other constantly
- No one leads—everything is 50/50
- Analysis paralysis becomes your default mode
Why it kills passion:
Democracy is great for governments. It’s death for desire.
Sexual attraction requires someone to lead and someone to follow—at least sometimes.
When everything is negotiated equally, there’s no tension. No surrender. No trust in the other’s direction.
The shift:
Alternate leadership in different domains:
- Weekday dinners: You decide Monday/Wednesday/Friday, she decides Tuesday/Thursday
- Weekend plans: Alternate who plans each weekend
- Bedroom: Whoever initiates leads that encounter
- Life logistics: Divide and conquer—you own some decisions, she owns others
Key principle: Take turns leading decisively instead of negotiating everything jointly.
Real example:
Tom and Rachel implemented “adventure nights”—alternating weeks where one person plans something without telling the other what it is.
Rachel: “Not knowing what’s happening and just following his lead? That feeling alone brought something back.”
Surrender. Trust. Mystery. All ingredients of desire.
Passion Killer #3: Predictable, Routine Physical Affection
What it looks like:
- Sex happens on the same days, same times
- Always the same sequence: kiss → touch → position 1 → position 2 → done
- Physical touch only happens as foreplay to sex
- You can predict exactly what will happen next
- No spontaneity, no risk, no surprise
- Sex feels like a scheduled maintenance activity
Why it kills passion:
Your brain is wired to tune out predictable patterns.
When physical intimacy follows the exact same script every time, your brain literally stops registering it as exciting.
It becomes background noise.
The shift:
Reintroduce unpredictability and variety:
Physical touch:
- Touch her randomly throughout the day with no sex expectation
- Pull her close just because
- Kiss her differently—slow when she expects fast, aggressive when she expects gentle
- Create touch that leads nowhere sometimes
Sexual initiation:
- Change when and how you initiate
- Vary location (not just bedroom)
- Mix up the sequence—start with what usually comes last
- Introduce unexpectedness: “We’re having sex right now” vs. lengthy negotiation
Tension building:
- Flirt during the day with no follow-through
- Build anticipation through texts
- Create sexual tension hours before sex happens
- Make eye contact that communicates clear desire
Real example:
Tom started initiating at random times—not the usual Saturday night routine.
Morning before work. Afternoon on the weekend. Evening while doing dishes.
Rachel: “I started thinking about sex during the day again. For years, I literally never thought about it unless it was ‘sex night.'”
Unpredictability reignited her desire.
Passion Killer #4: Lost Individual Identity and Purpose
What it looks like:
- You abandoned hobbies you loved
- Stopped growing and challenging yourself
- Your life became 100% relationship/family focused
- No personal goals or ambitions beyond the partnership
- When asked “what are you passionate about?” you can’t answer
- You’ve become a role (partner, parent) not a person
Why it kills passion:
People are attracted to aliveness, growth, passion.
When you stop being a person with your own fire and become just a role in someone else’s life, you become boring.
Not because you’re a bad partner.
Because there’s nothing dynamic, nothing evolving, nothing interesting beyond your function.
The shift:
Reclaim your individual identity:
- Restart one abandoned hobby or passion
- Set personal goals unrelated to the relationship
- Challenge yourself to grow in some area
- Have something you’re excited about independent of your partner
- Be willing to prioritize your development sometimes
This feels selfish. It’s not. It’s essential.
Your partner doesn’t want a servant. They want a vibrant, growing, passionate human they’re attracted to.
Real example:
Tom had stopped playing guitar when their first kid was born. “No time,” he said.
He started again. Just 30 minutes, three times a week.
Rachel: “Watching him play again, completely absorbed in something, reminded me of the guy I fell in love with. He wasn’t just ‘dad’ or ‘husband.’ He was Tom.”
That aliveness is magnetic.
The Passion Restoration Framework: 90-Day Reignition Plan
Theory is useless without a specific plan. Here’s your structured approach to bringing passion back, broken into progressive phases.
Phase 1: Separation and Rebuilding Individual Identity (Days 1-30)
Goal: Create healthy separation and reclaim personal identity
Week 1: Establish Independent Territory
Daily actions:
- Spend 1 hour daily on an activity that’s just yours
- Stop sharing every thought and feeling immediately
- Create one evening per week that’s yours alone
- Reduce check-in texts by 50%
What you’re building: Space for desire to exist
Week 2: Restart Personal Passions
Daily actions:
- Engage with one abandoned hobby or interest
- Set one personal goal unrelated to the relationship
- Do something mildly risky or challenging alone
- Share excitement about your pursuits (but not every detail)
What you’re building: Individual aliveness that’s attractive
Week 3: Social Separation
Daily actions:
- Maintain one friendship that’s yours alone
- Attend one social event without your partner
- Develop opinions that differ from your partner’s
- Express those differences respectfully
What you’re building: Mystery and separateness
Week 4: Integration
Daily actions:
- Continue individual activities consistently
- Notice your partner’s response to your independence
- Maintain boundaries around personal time
- Reconnect from a place of fullness, not neediness
Success metric: You both feel more like individuals in a relationship than extensions of each other
Phase 2: Reestablishing Polarity (Days 31-60)
Goal: Create masculine-feminine tension through decisive leadership
Week 5: Decisiveness Training
Daily actions:
- Make 3 decisions daily without consulting first
- Plan one date without asking for input
- Express desires clearly: “I want…” not “Do you want…”
- Take leadership on one household domain completely
What you’re building: Masculine decisiveness that creates attraction
Week 6: Creating Unpredictability
Daily actions:
- Do one unexpected thing daily (doesn’t have to be big)
- Break one routine pattern each week
- Surprise your partner with spontaneous plans
- Respond differently than predicted
What you’re building: Mystery and excitement
Week 7: Physical Confidence
Daily actions:
- Initiate physical touch with no sex agenda
- Maintain eye contact longer than comfortable
- Touch your partner decisively (not asking, just doing)
- Create sexual tension without immediate resolution
What you’re building: Confident physical presence
Week 8: Integration
Daily actions:
- Maintain decisive leadership consistently
- Keep unpredictability at ~20% (80/20 rule)
- Continue confident physical initiation
- Notice shifts in attraction dynamic
Success metric: Your partner responds to your leadership and seems more attracted
Phase 3: Sexual Reawakening (Days 61-90)
Goal: Reignite sexual passion through variety, confidence, and tension
Week 9: Initiation Transformation
Daily actions:
- Initiate sex at least 3x this week (not scheduled times)
- Vary how you initiate each time
- Build sexual tension throughout the day before initiating
- Create clear, confident desire: “I want you. Now.”
What you’re building: Active, confident sexual pursuit
Week 10: Breaking Patterns
Daily actions:
- Change location (not the bedroom)
- Change sequence (start with what usually comes last)
- Change timing (morning, afternoon, spontaneous)
- Change intensity (mix slow/sensual with urgent/passionate)
What you’re building: Unpredictability in intimacy
Week 11: Desire Communication
Daily actions:
- Express sexual desire verbally throughout the day
- Send suggestive texts or messages
- Make explicit what you want to do
- Create anticipation hours before sex
What you’re building: Sustained sexual tension
Week 12: Integration and Elevation
Daily actions:
- Maintain 2-3x weekly sexual frequency minimum
- Keep variety and unpredictability high
- Continue confident initiation
- Introduce new elements periodically
Success metric: Both partners actively desire and initiate sex regularly
The Polarity Conversation: How to Talk About This
Most couples need to have an explicit conversation about reigniting passion.
Here’s how to do it without it being weird:
The Opening
Bad: “I think we should try to have more passion.”
Good: “I’ve been thinking about us. I miss the way we used to want each other. I want to do something about it.”
Why it works: Direct, honest, shows you’re taking action (not just complaining)
The Discussion Framework
Step 1: Acknowledge the reality
“We’ve built an amazing stable life together. But somewhere along the way, the passion faded. Not because we don’t love each other—because we got too comfortable.”
Step 2: Share what you’ve learned
“I’ve been reading about relationships and desire. Apparently, passion dies when everything becomes predictable and we lose our individual identities. That makes sense for us.”
Step 3: Propose the experiment
“I want to try something. For the next 90 days, I’m going to focus on being more decisive, more unpredictable, and maintaining my own interests. I’m also going to pursue you more actively. I want you to feel desired again.”
Step 4: Invite participation
“I think part of this means we need some healthy separation—not distance, but independence. Can we both commit to maintaining our individual identities while also reconnecting as lovers?”
Step 5: Set expectations
“This might feel awkward at first. I might make decisions you disagree with. I might be less available. That’s part of creating the tension we need. Can you give me grace as I figure this out?”
Handling Resistance
If she says: “I like how things are”
You say: “I love our stability too. But I don’t want us to be roommates. I want us to want each other. Let’s try this for 30 days and see what happens.”
If she says: “This sounds like you’re trying to control me”
You say: “The opposite. I want both of us to be fuller individuals. That includes me taking more leadership in some areas and you maintaining your independence too.”
If she says: “I don’t think this will work”
You say: “Maybe not. But what we’re doing now isn’t working either. Let’s try something different.”
Advanced Passion Techniques: Creating Ongoing Desire
Once you’ve mastered the fundamentals, here are advanced techniques for maintaining passion long-term:
The Desire Anticipation Loop
Principle: Build sexual tension throughout the day, don’t just initiate when you want sex
How to implement:
Morning: Light touch or suggestive comment before leaving Mid-day: Send a text that clearly expresses desire (not “thinking of you”—be explicit) Afternoon: Brief check-in with clear sexual undertone Evening: Don’t immediately follow through—build more tension Night: Confident initiation when tension is peak
Why it works: Anticipation is often more exciting than the act itself
Real example:
Tom started texting Rachel mid-day: “Can’t stop thinking about last night. I want you tonight.”
Not during sex. Hours before.
Rachel: “I’d be thinking about it all afternoon. By evening, I actually wanted him.”
The Polarity Switch
Principle: Occasionally reverse the typical dynamic for novelty
How to implement:
If you typically lead:
- Let her lead completely one encounter
- Follow her direction without suggestion
- Surrender control entirely
If she typically leads:
- Take complete control one encounter
- Direct every element
- Make all decisions decisively
Why it works: Variety prevents predictability, trying the opposite creates appreciation for the usual dynamic
The Mystery Maintenance Protocol
Principle: Never become completely predictable again
How to implement:
Daily: Do one small thing differently Weekly: Break one routine pattern Monthly: Plan one completely unexpected experience Quarterly: Pursue one new interest or challenge
Why it works: Maintains ongoing curiosity and interest
The Confidence Display
Principle: Regularly demonstrate competence and strength
How to implement:
- Fix things decisively
- Make clear decisions under pressure
- Demonstrate physical capability
- Handle challenges calmly
- Pursue challenges outside your comfort zone
Why it works: Competence and confidence are deeply attractive
Not: Performing for approval But: Genuinely growing and demonstrating capability
When Passion Requires Professional Help
Sometimes restoring passion requires more than self-implemented changes. Here’s when to seek professional support:
Consider therapy if:
- You’ve implemented this framework consistently for 90 days with zero improvement
- There’s underlying resentment or unresolved conflicts blocking intimacy
- One partner has completely checked out emotionally
- Past trauma affects sexual intimacy
- Physical health issues impact sexual function
- You can’t have conversations about sex without fighting
Types of therapy that help:
- Sex therapy: Specifically addresses sexual dysfunction and desire discrepancy
- Couples therapy: Addresses underlying relationship dynamics affecting passion
- Somatic therapy: Helps release physical blocks to pleasure and connection
- Individual therapy: Sometimes one partner needs personal work before relationship work
How to bring it up:
“I’m committed to bringing passion back to us. I think we could benefit from professional guidance. Would you be open to seeing a sex therapist together?”
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does it take to bring passion back?
Most couples notice initial changes within 2-4 weeks of implementing these principles consistently. Significant transformation typically occurs within 60-90 days. However, if passion has been dead for many years, allow 6-12 months for complete restoration. The key is consistency—you can’t implement for a week, quit when it feels awkward, and expect lasting change.
What if only one of us wants to work on this?
You can create significant change through unilateral action. Start implementing the principles in this article regardless of your partner’s participation. As you become more decisive, interesting, and confident, most partners naturally respond. However, if after 60-90 days of genuine effort your partner shows zero interest or response, that’s a deeper relationship issue requiring honest conversation about whether you’re both still invested.
Is this manipulation or “playing games”?
Only if you’re doing it tactically to get something rather than genuinely becoming a more attractive version of yourself. These aren’t tricks—they’re becoming a more complete, confident, interesting person. Manipulation is pretending. This is actually developing these qualities. The attraction that follows is a natural byproduct, not a manipulated outcome.
What if we’re both naturally passive people?
Someone needs to take leadership in intimate relationships for polarity to exist. If you’re both passive, you’re likely both stuck in collapsed masculine energy (or excessive feminine energy). This framework still applies—someone needs to step into decisive leadership. Often the person who wants passion more will naturally take this role. Start small and build confidence in leadership progressively.
Can this work if we have young kids and are exhausted?
Yes, but it requires adapting expectations. You won’t have spontaneous afternoon sex, but you can still implement: independent identity maintenance (essential for sanity anyway), decisive leadership (makes logistics easier), and scheduled but varied intimacy. The parenting phase is when couples most need these principles—it’s easy to become co-parents who forget they’re lovers.
What if bringing up sex makes my partner uncomfortable?
Start with non-sexual changes first: decisiveness, independence, unpredictability in daily life. Build attraction outside the bedroom before addressing bedroom dynamics. As general attraction increases, sexual conversations become easier. Also, how you bring it up matters—frame it as wanting to reconnect and desire them more, not as criticism of current sex life.
Is polarity the same as traditional gender roles?
No. Polarity is about complementary energies (active/receptive, giving/receiving, penetrating/enveloping), not rigid social roles. Women can embody masculine energy, men can embody feminine energy. What matters is that there’s difference and dynamic tension. Most heterosexual couples find that masculine-leaning and feminine-leaning polarity feels natural, but this isn’t universal or required.
What if my partner thinks I’m having an affair when I become more mysterious?
This indicates deep trust issues that need addressing. Healthy mystery isn’t secrecy—you’re not hiding affairs, you’re maintaining individuality. Be transparent: “I’m working on maintaining my own identity and interests because I read it’s healthy for relationships. I’m not hiding anything—I’m just not reporting every detail of my pottery class.” If suspicion persists, couples therapy.
How do we maintain passion while also being best friends?
The goal isn’t to choose one or the other—it’s to have both. You can be best friends who share life deeply AND maintain enough separation, polarity, and mystery to sustain desire. The key is compartmentalization: share emotional intimacy fully, but maintain some space, autonomy, and polarity in other areas. Best friends who are also passionate lovers is the ideal.
What if we try this and it makes things worse?
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Your Immediate Action Plan
Here’s exactly what to do in the next 72 hours:
Today (next 3 hours):
- Identify which passion killer is strongest in your relationship (merger, democracy, predictability, or lost identity)
- Schedule 30 minutes to talk with your partner about wanting to reignite passion
- Choose one personal activity you’ll start doing independently this week
Tomorrow (next 24 hours):
- Make three decisive choices without consulting your partner first
- Send one text that builds sexual tension (be explicit about desire)
- Do one unexpected thing that breaks your normal routine
This Week (next 7 days):
- Start Phase 1 of the 90-Day Framework (individual identity restoration)
- Initiate physical intimacy at least twice (not scheduled times)
- Engage in one activity completely separate from your partner
- Track your partner’s responses to these changes
This Month:
- Complete Phase 1 fully before moving to Phase 2
- Read this article weekly to reinforce principles
- Adjust based on what’s working and what’s not
The Relationship You’re Creating
Let me tell you what Rachel and Tom’s relationship looks like now, 18 months after that dinner conversation.
They still have the stability they built.
The house. The financial security. The shared life.
But now they also have:
Desire that shows up spontaneously, not on schedule. Sexual tension that builds throughout the day. Unpredictability that keeps things interesting. Individual identities that make them more attractive. Leadership and surrender that creates polarity. Physical intimacy 2-3x weekly minimum. Genuine passion, not just comfortable affection.
Rachel describes it:
“We have the best of both worlds now. I can count on Tom completely—he’s still my rock. But I also want him sexually again. There’s excitement. Mystery. Tension. Things I thought died forever.”
Tom describes it:
“I feel like a man again, not just a logistics partner. Taking leadership felt weird at first, but now it’s natural. And Rachel responds to it—she’s more playful, more sexual, more alive.”
This is what’s available to you.
Not choosing between stability and passion. Not settling for comfortable boredom. Not accepting that passion necessarily fades.
Having both.
The relationship that’s safe enough to be vulnerable AND exciting enough to stay passionate.
That’s what you’re building.
The Final Truth About Passion
Here’s what nobody tells you:
Passion isn’t something you have. It’s something you create.
It’s not a feeling that randomly shows up or disappears.
It’s the result of specific dynamics, specific behaviors, specific energy patterns.
When you understand those patterns, you can generate passion deliberately.
Most couples think passion dying is inevitable. “Of course it fades—we’ve been together for years.”
That’s a choice, not a law.
You can choose to maintain the patterns that create passion:
- Polarity through masculine and feminine energy
- Mystery through independent identity
- Tension through unpredictability
- Desire through confident pursuit
- Attraction through ongoing growth
Or you can choose comfort, predictability, and total merger.
You can’t have both at maximum.
But you can have 80% stability with 20% passion-creating tension.
That’s the sweet spot.
That’s the relationship that lasts AND stays passionate.
The choice is yours.
Make it now. Not tomorrow. Not after the next vacation. Not when life is less busy.
Now.
Because every day you wait is another day your passion stays dormant.
And life is too short for passionless partnerships.
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